We all want our spouses to change, to love us once again and things to be better than they were before. These feelings can only hurt us because we can't change our partners. They have their own thoughts and emotions which we can't affect no matter how much we wish things were different. We can only deal with our own lives, take our own decisions, learn to love and understand ourselves. We have to accept that the only control we have in life is of our own emotions and actions. We all understand your feelings but the only person you are hurting is yourself. Only when you accept how things are now can you begin to live your life day to day. Who knows what the future will bring? Reliving the past will leave you in limbo and pain, time to move on, to work on making yourself happy. Only once you are living in the present the future could be an exciting place.
