The constant texting is new since second BD last Thursday. He has always been glued to his phone, but this is a new level. It feels like he is constantly on his phone.
As for his time, he works all day Monday to Friday (with a very short lunch break) and always comes straight home. Week nights he has a standard twice a week coffee date with my sister's husband, so that is verified. Up until this past weekend he has spent every weekend with me for months in a travel trailer on some property we have, which is an hour and a half from where we live. It is only this week since BD that he is not giving explanations when he goes out....but I see this more as him trying to assert his independence from me.
As for personality change, he has not been the man I married for at least the last two years, he is never the same two days in a row.
I am truly sorry about your situation. Having something blatantly flaunted in your face like that must be very painful. I know how hard it is to stay positive in the face of all of this.
