Your WH will mourn the loss of his R with OW if it truly is over.

Waywards aren't usually in love with their A partner, they are in love with the way they feel about thems elves whilst in the A.

By becoming the best you can be you stand to win a new R with your WH.

I believe it is about attracting your WH back to you. A new R doesn't start because you are a great mother or a wonderful wife. It happens because two people are attracted to each other.

That works two ways, we are attracted to those who are attracted to us. Truly that is the case.

Are you attracted to WH?

This troubles you and I think this is natural, when we are hurt it is natural to be protective of ourselves.

Are you hanging on to OW as well as WH missing the feelings he gets from his A.

I often see LBS being obsessed with an OM or OW, when in actual fact it is their spouses behaviour which is the issue. Most As don't survive the spotlight on them, they only work in secrecy and the limmerance phase. Waywards would feel that way about a kangaroo if that gave them the feeling they needEd. Any port in a storm.

So can you be attracted to your WH?

V

Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW