Well, I told her she must choose to end the affair with complete transparency or we begin separation immediately. I am at home (left work to be home early) and we will be talking when she gets home from work (before the kids are home).
I am sticking to my guns this time. She must commit to complete NC with other man or I am beginning the separation. This is the hardest thing I have ever done in my life, but I have to stand up for myself, my family, and my marriage.
I appreciate all of you and your support.
Amazing - way to go and protect your boundaries!
Me37 W33 T:8 M:5 D3 BD 11/2015 EA+PA w boss 12/2015 S 3/2016
Im stronger because I had to be Im smarter because of my mistakes happier because of the sadness Ive known and now wiser because I learned
