Thanks everyone. Anna, I do know there would be consequences. I've already told her the terms are 1)ow is out of her life 2) she's over ow 3)transparency: turn find my iPhone back on, don't turn phone off, let me have password to phone/email/iPad,etc. We're not even there yet. She says she wants to get there and she understands the terms. she's just not there yet. She's not done with ow, even though she says she's tired of the situation and wants our R back. She's afraid we can't get past this. She tells friends she's afraid I won't take her back. (Is she just trying to blame me?) She tells friends she's afraid of what people will say about her for doing this (and for then going back to me.) She tells her friends she's miserable and scared. She tells me she's anxious that I'm going to move on before she finds her way back. I do believe she's really trying to understand why she did this so she will never do it (to me or anyone) again. She has said that if we get back together, it's forever. I think that's a lot to ask for at this point, since we haven't even spent any significant time together since January 2nd. We haven't done anything fun since November. I do believe she needs validation. I'm waiting for her to reach out again. She sent me a picture of a display yesterday that mentioned my college.
I know she's still thinking of me; she's out of town until Wednesday.
Please get your W into IC. She's in dire need of it.
