Thanks Vanilla. You are right about DB being for me.

I was more or less asking to see if anyone else had experienced their WAS be so different each time they talk - tears of sadness and long talks, to 30 mins and agitation.

How do you handle the yo-yo and still keep the as if attitude? Looking for some guidance on what to do next, if he calls again. I want to take the baby steps in the right direction. Anyone experience this from their WAS?


Me:33 H:34
T: 3yrs M: 2yrs
H depression triggered and we are "unhealthy": 7/15
H wants to "make it work" 12/28
BD: 3/10/16