Juju,

Good for you for *not* saying what you were thinking! You averted an argument and showed great self-restraint. Your thoughts were natural.

Another thing you could have said but didn't was, 'You could use your half of the tax return to pay me for the child support you didn't pay for the time before we went to court.' wink

Are you filing joint? You should probably check with your L or CPA what should happen here.

I hope you find something that will help distract you! Have you checked out Meetup? Are there any physical activities you can pursue?


M 16 yrs, WH62, P54
3 adult blended kids
EA 11/13, BD1 6/14
PA fall 14, BD2 2/15
Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15
Separated 4/16
WH moved OW in 5/16
Divorced 6/15/17