Well, I told her she must choose to end the affair with complete transparency or we begin separation immediately. I am at home (left work to be home early) and we will be talking when she gets home from work (before the kids are home).
I am sticking to my guns this time. She must commit to complete NC with other man or I am beginning the separation. This is the hardest thing I have ever done in my life, but I have to stand up for myself, my family, and my marriage.
I appreciate all of you and your support.
Me - 32 WW - 30 D 11, D 3, D 2 T - 9 years M - 8 years BD - 2/16