In 2014, H told *everyone* and himself that I had left and we were separated. I had gone for a few months to visit my son and take a class, and he took the opportunity to take his EA to a PA.
We were *not* separated, and he had promised he would *not* have any contact with OW while I was gone.
M 16 yrs, WH62, P54 3 adult blended kids EA 11/13, BD1 6/14 PA fall 14, BD2 2/15 Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15 Separated 4/16 WH moved OW in 5/16 Divorced 6/15/17