Thanks Mona. Happiness and forgiveness. I'll remember that.
Why do I believe it? Because she's saying the same things to a lot of different people, not just me. Of course I don't know what she's saying to ow, but she's not going to want to lie to all our friends and then be shown to be a liar later.
She could be saying things to *herself* that's not true. It's what people tell themselves to defend their actions and appease guilt.
Remember, believe nothing of what they say and half of what they do. It doesn't matter *who* they say it to.
M 16 yrs, WH62, P54 3 adult blended kids EA 11/13, BD1 6/14 PA fall 14, BD2 2/15 Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15 Separated 4/16 WH moved OW in 5/16 Divorced 6/15/17