Just checking in. After NC I emailed W to sort out monthly finance details. I got back an email complaining how tired she is with her lack of contact with S and saying it seems really bad for her and also for him. She says she thinks we should meet soon. She doesn't say why she thinks we should meet, if it is to listen to her complain about S then I'm not inclined to go. He is fine, cheerful and good company but reluctant to spend time with his mother. She makes no reference to finances so no idea what she wants to talk about. I don't really want to sit and listen to her complaints while she is still living her life with OM. I feel like replying to say that on Thursdays I'm busy and I'm not aware of any reason to meet. I'm sorry that her R is poor with S but it is something she has earned for herself over many years and I can't really do anything to interfere. With so little contact I don't know what she is thinking and feeling but I don't want to dance to her every contact.
