It's like I get a different H every time we talk. Last time it was a weepy sad 2 hour call (him not me). Sounding like he didn't want the D, but just didn't' know what else to do.
This time was a 30 min irritated H. HE wanted the call and just seemed annoyed that he made it the whole time. I tried to stay positive. Did not let him bait me into a fight. He kept saying, "well you said you wanted to keep talking, but it seems like we don't have much to say anymore".
No talk of D or the R. Instead he talked he was more interested in what I am doing, where I might move for work, etc. Then HE said again, that he would call me, later this week.
I don't understand:
1) the swing from sad to irritated on this call (I was nice as punch)
2) why he keeps wanting to call me, yet seems annoyed about doing it (I have never asked him to call me and I don't reach out to him)
3) why he wants another call at all? if he wants a D why keep calling me about bullshit and being grumpy the whole time.
How to DB this?
Me:33 H:34 T: 3yrs M: 2yrs H depression triggered and we are "unhealthy": 7/15 H wants to "make it work" 12/28 BD: 3/10/16
