My Story - the circular nature of causality

[1gr8dad]

There are plenty of ways to facilitate exposure with no direct links back to you.

Thx TxHubby, though I do not even want any indirect link back. What is now clear to me in life is that the truth will eventually surface. When? This is out of our control. Intervening on my part, even indirectly, would eventually be discovered. Irregardless, my WW's A will eventually be exposed on its own.

Well LRT is really used to protect YOU.
Added benefit is not enabling her or providing any of her needs.

I would be focused on being a good parent no matter what you label her.
As far as exiting the MR, my suggestion is to do what ever you need to do to protect yourself and your children.

Thanks Cadet, your sage words are so helpful. I'm now focused on moving forward with or without my W.

Currently I do not want to really speak with STBXW on anything unless it's to do with D3. This is for my own protection and detachment which has worked on my side. As I detach there's less pain.

I've made progress on the paperwork I must submit to L.
I made progress on GAL, I have created my own meetup group for single parents with kids in my area and we will be going to fun kids venues on weekends.

Thanks again Cadet, TxHubby, Cristy, CWOL, Lostman, and LiM, for all your support, shared stories and interest in my sitch.

You input will not be forgotten. Love to all.