Every time she looks at you, she might see the pain she caused and that is hard for a normal person to deal with. Our WAS's are far from normal. If you really think she is feeling self-hatred, there is nothing you can do to fix that. She has to go through the process. All you can do is show happiness and forgiveness. Real forgiveness. And that is sooo hard.
Me: 42 H: 45 M: 18 yrs T: 20 yrs D: 17 D: 15 S: 12 I kicked him out 8/21/15 I will DB until March 21st 2017, that is it!