What has been working for you so far?

Did work start to get stressful at about the time he gave up trying?

Dbing techniques such as GAL, acting as if and doing what works should always be part of your tools.

What I am not so sure about is if you should try to engage him, or wait for him to engage you, or do a bit of both.

IMO, it doesn't feel right to reject him if he asks for date nights. But maybe you should get others to weigh in.

Has he ever told you what made him dec8de yo leave OW and go back to you?

(((Cherry))) This must be tough on you.

You can call me Dory/ Grl.

As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"

It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.