No he is not married from what I can get on Facebook.

She has been on the couch basically from the start of this.

In my state you can not kick the spouse out legally. Of course I can ask. I also have the kids in the house to consider.

I confronted her about the EA maybe a month ago and it hasn't been brought up since. And at the time the conversation was basically asking if she is involved with someone. She denied at first and then finally said yes. It really didn't go any further than that at the time and hasn't been addressed since. But I do know they are still in communication. It stays behind the scenes for the most part. The only time he directly commented on one of her Facebook posts that I could see was this past week on our family vacation. She posted regarding liking a new band and he replied that he liked them too.


M:13 years
Known her for 30 years!
Me: 40
W: 38
Kids: 17, 11, 7, 7
BD: 02/07/2016
Found EA: 3/22/2016
Told of 2 PA's: 4/8/16
Got Papers: 6/15/16