Don't over analyse the dream or even her seeking comfort after it. It could be a good sign or just a rise in the roller coaster. It should nit be your focus. Mark it down as a positive sign and move on

Are you GAL? Are you out of the appart more? Are you busy when home?

R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together