We don't always know what the label is on our spouses. Could also be MLC.
My opinion is to not let that concern you.
DB'ing is shifting the focus off of our spouses and placing it on the one person we can CONTROL.
OURSELVES.
That is the area that I think you should worry about.
Thanks for this Cadet, it's just what I needed to hear!
Originally Posted By: Cadet
What would you DO differently if you had this knowledge?
Well, If she wasn't wayward than maybe I should not be using LRTs (which has seemed to be ineffective so far) Maybe I should be focusing on exiting the MR as respectively as possible and focus on being a good co-parent.
Me37 W33 T:8 M:5 D3 BD 11/2015 EA+PA w boss 12/2015 S 3/2016
Im stronger because I had to be Im smarter because of my mistakes happier because of the sadness Ive known and now wiser because I learned
