So I'm really struggling with this whole detach thing - W every night is texting me (clearly having trouble letting go) I usually wait a while to respond, tonight she was sharing a a frustrating experience and I was at a loss whether to be empathetic with her or just shrug it off, part of me wants to show empathy (the H she's been missing the past 10 years) but the other side of me says to detach... how have you guys handled these sich?

Me: 40 W: 45
T: 13, M: 11
1 D: 9

Suspect A 6/15
ILBINILWY 8/15, and 3/16
EA/PA Discovered 3/16
EA admitted 3/16
W Moved out 4/16
W opens R talk and says A over 1/17