Please remember that what your wife says and does, has no weight on your value. You are a great man, father, friend. I have went through dealing with projection. It was very, very tough on me... and made me really doubt my self worth. But, you know what? All that was her mess, and she was trying to make it my fault. I believed it for a good while too.
I ramble. My advice/hopes/whatever for you, is that you aren't too hard on yourself, unnecessarily.
Much love for ya mu!
35 3 boys Not my circus, not my monkeys anymore....
