HElP! I received a text from XH cuz DS19 called him & had XH on speaker. XH asked him why and DS19 said for documentation.
So then XH said "stop recording me since it's illegal for you to record me on a recording device without my permission. I do not give you my permission"
DS19 said ok. XH: "either you stop recording or we stop talking." DS19: "Ok well then it was nice talking to you again."
XH responded text me saying that "it's another thing that I'm doing to distract him from building a relationship with his sons because I told DS19 to record the conversation. Now he has paper documentation and will take this to court." UGH!!!
DS19 hasn't spoken to his dad since new years eve and XH said how could I allow the boys to treat their dad this way. ???? I've NEVER interfered nor do I "allow" them. I cant make a 16 & 19 yr old. I've tried and look what happened. My DS19 was soooo upset and frustrated cuz he really didn't want to talk to his dad - at all but I did ask him to call & let his dad know about the final date.
So I'm putting together the following email - can y'all look it over & see it looks ok. I dont want to get into a battle. So frustrated.
XH,
I asked DS19 to call you to let you know about his graduation date.
You have always had DS19 and DS17 cell phone numbers and are always free to call or text them anytime. I have also always encouraged them to contact you. I have never prohibited nor interfered with your relationships with our children. They are always free to communicate with you by phone call, text, email or in person.
