You make a valid point. I have seen on threads where things start to go good, and WW invites to family stuff and all of a sudden when asked if they want to work on the M, the WW is like, "I just thought we were being nice for the kids!" or to co-parent. I guess the healthiest thing for me is to drop the rope, and if their is an R in the future it will be when she makes it blatantly obvious that is what she wants and she is willing to do whatever it takes. I have read it a bunch, but I keep forgetting that you cannot "Nice" a WW back to a M. Need to focus on me and the kids and start to build our new life without her, she is obviously doing that for her without us.
