so update.
I backslid, arguing, lying etc. all the qualities WW hated.

After 5 weeks of anger, frustration, I awakened today, not caring about WW and OM. OM and WW spent the weekend at the MH, i wonder what the neighbours are thinking....

I've also learned who my real friends are and my gossipy friends are.
the ones that keep their mouth shut and give advice/support and the ones watching my life as a soap opera and spreading gossip.
which in turn created a major backslide. she is now the town gossip. and some of her friends disowned her. she blamed me for spreading the gossip.

She has sent homework when I picked up the kids. since I was the fun dad and no responsibilities, while she slaved away as a single mom.
jealousy?



Even though WW is in her selfish fog. I conceded in some of her wishes for me to be a responsible dad(180).
Returning the kids clothes cleaned, completing homework with them.
but she conceded on one wish i had. major break thru! she will have them fed before i pick them up, and in the summer i can have them longer and i will feed them. thus relieving her rushing to prep them for pickup.

one 180 i noticed is i got a "stylish" haircut, and S11 got a haircut similar to mine, and she posted on FB. we've been spying "sharing" kids pics on FB.

Am I giving in to her wishes? or am i showing empathy(180)

Is WW really that dumb to have OM over 4 weeks after I left.
I wonder what other dumb moves she is doing. ie. going out in public.


Me 41 W 38
S5 S11 S13
M10 T16
03/06 B drop 1, OM found 1 mth in
03/06 Physical Seperation