Had an interaction with W when I took S PS4 to him. Stood in the doorway and gave him his stuff and hugged him. Then said well I'll see ya. W had wide eyes and said slowly, see ya. I guess she was surprised that I was so quick to leave. Didn't feel good to me.
I have spoken to IC and all that know my sitch about having W over to discuss S and how we move forward. I know that doesnt seem to be the DB consensus, but how does anything move forward in either direction if we have such limited contact? We just learn to live apart. Detachment right? yeah i realize that.
But if she is not interested at all in R then I would like to be free to move on. As much as it would hurt me again. I can't go through this thing with no progress, hoping that she misses me and has a change of heart.
I won't sit back and let her sow her wild oats or whatever and be her plan B.
Any thoughts? Bueller? Bueller?
Fight the good fight no matter the quality of your opponent.
Me-50 WAW-45 S13 Married 24 years Bomb 1-Jan.2008 Disc. EA She came back for 8 years Bomb 2-Jan-2016 Separation 3-12-2016
