Irish, kml, M .... thank you for your words and posts.
Irish: I posted in someones post a few days ago about not sure what is better/worse the Bommerang or the Vanisher in MLC and decided its a Chit-Sandwich and just a matter of which end you start on ... the sandwich is the same
kml: I do think about the R between W and S ... W and MIL do not have a good one, not shre W ever learned it really, shame for them both really but nothing I can do to help that, and nothing I will do to hurt it. Its on them.
M No idea where he heard it, maybe a movie or while on his iPad (She does not monitor this) ... maybe school .. the important thing is he feels comfortable enough around me to ask such a thng so big picture I am happy the communication lines are open with topics like this.