I get it as things are moving along you are not sure where things are with W.
Is she living like she is single? I see you are included in family things. Have you been excluded from anything that W is doing that you would be part of normally?
Have you had a talk about dating other people? Or is there hidden rules for that? Like she doesn't see you dating so she is not dating?
How about your child care agreement. Has there been flexibility with that? Is it changing as each your needs change or are your days yours and her days with the kids are hers?
What do you do if you want to take the kids to a event, do you invite W? Or do you just go with out her?
Me late 30's W mid 30's T 15, M 10 S4, S7 ILYBNILWY June 2015 In house S July 2015 W rings off Oct 2015 My ring off Feb 2015 Separate houses June 2016
