Detaching isn't going to push her back to the OM. If she goes back to the OM, its not because you detached. Its because she is emotionally weak, resentful, rebellious, disrespectful and has a heart full of contempt. She's got to fix that. In the mean time, you have to work on YOU. Become the man you KNOW you can be. The man she would be a fool to leave!
Wow LiM, that may be the best way I've heard how detaching push her away!
Storm, you said you kicked her out. You regret that or think it helped? I am at the point of considering it. My W is having a EA so it's slightly different but still an A no the less. I brought it up to her that I know about it. But we haven't discussed it since. I see her texting all the time and I'd be a fool to think its not with the OM. So I contemplating it.
M:13 years Known her for 30 years! Me: 40 W: 38 Kids: 17, 11, 7, 7 BD: 02/07/2016 Found EA: 3/22/2016 Told of 2 PA's: 4/8/16 Got Papers: 6/15/16
