GAL going well. Need help with LRT and 180

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Last night I was rereading some sections of DB. There is a section where Michele says "if you woke up and a miracle had happened and your spouse... how would you act differently"

Can one of the moderators or other experienced DB/DR give me some insight on how to inject that thinking into my 180/Last resort. MY gut tells me that if I woke up and W was a little more receptive to me - I would be a little more receptive, affection a.k.a. pursuing. I'm guessing that would be wrong no pursing is the fundamental step for us.

I do like the idea of "changing my mindset a little"

Looking forward to hearing from all of you.