He requested a phone call after our latest exchange because: "I feel like we are talking past one another, or at the very least, you aren't understanding exactly what I'm saying on a couple of points."
Perhaps "not understanding" means "not agreeing" to him. So, I will try my very best to listen, to validate, and also to keep my boundaries clear. Wish me luck.
People tell me I am strong and brave and capable and inspirational. I will keep them,and all of you, in mind when I talk to him.
Just because he doesn't agree with me doesn't mean he is "right" or that I have to concede to his wishes.