I was on a trip most of the week, and when I came back child came to me and hugged me. I said did you two miss me, and child was 'yeees!' but wife just rolled her eyes.

Later on she said it was so much better without me, and that she enjoyed whole place for herself.

Makes sense, with me as main enemy in her life she wants to move away from me, and when I leave, it is so much better for her.

She still has not found a job, and did not make any moves to her new life, except that she is not planning to spend summer holidays with us (child and me) because 'she will be working, and will not have summer vacation this year'.

Don't know how to react to that. I know she stands little chance to get proper paying job. She is delusional of her skills, not that she is bad at what she does, but she lacks other skills; like motivation, work ethics...


Me38,W36,D9
M 10y, R 14y

10/11/2015 wants to leave
25/12/2015 definitely wants to leave, makes plans
Jan 2016 started DBing
Feb 2016 sleeping in separate rooms
Sep 2016 sleeping in same room