We are apart, the plan was for me to join him in CA last December. He ultimately didn't want that because he was so unsure of his job situation and really didn't want to stay in CA that he wanted to wait until "he got fired" or found another job (and he was planning on coming back to where I live this June).
So the plan was always to be together, but when things stated getting rocky that fell by the wayside. I have mentioned to him several times that nothing was going to change/get better until we were in the same place, but still no movement. i think now he was just trying to start the separation process.
I don't think this next call, if it happens is going to be good.
Me:33 H:34 T: 3yrs M: 2yrs H depression triggered and we are "unhealthy": 7/15 H wants to "make it work" 12/28 BD: 3/10/16
