Thanks Sparkls, I always look forward to seeing your inputs. That's kinda what I was thinking as a response, ultimately I just fell asleep last night and didn't respond at all... not sure if that was the best idea.

I just got a knot in my stomach, where I thought the last call was positive, and then this was a set-back. The yo-yo I guess.

Me:33 H:34
T: 3yrs M: 2yrs
H depression triggered and we are "unhealthy": 7/15
H wants to "make it work" 12/28
BD: 3/10/16