Hey not much to report.

I had the kids for the most part of Sat. Took them to a skate park and to visit W at her work. They were having a customer day and the kids have gone every year. I wanted to bring them just to show my face at her work as I haven't seen her boss in a long time. Also to show I am not the monster she is making me out to be.

Sunday, W took the kid to the in-laws early as she had a wedding shower to go to. Then they had a birthday party for MIL. I was not invited. I didn't ask about going. I was available and no invitation was offered. Kids asked why I wasn't going and W just said that I don't go anymore. She seemed distressed about saying to them. What could I do but smile and wave good bye. Acting "as if"

I usually go to soccer but that is done. But I can see now how important it is to just go and get out. I stayed in and it was not fun.

I went through the house to get a list of what I want to take to my new place.

They came home and I put the kids to bed.

I started work today on building my credit. Need to continue to do stuff for me.

We have a separation agreement that states any credit obtained after the S date the other spouse is not responsible for it. So W can start racking up her debt with out hurting my credit.

That is if for now. I will try to post stuff of what I am doing for me.


Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016