I think feeling overwhelmed is a normal feeling now. Our worlds have been turned upside down and inside out. I think we are reading everything in search of an answer. A wise young person gave me some advice as I shared my feelings of turmoil yesterday, that maybe I should take sometime and stop reading and seeking the answer from other sources and that I should take some time to look within and use meditation, self reflection and prayer. They said that the answer is within me and I can take better actions, make and follow through on better decisions and trust in myself if I would take the time to do so.
Basically there may be too much info and too many opinions to actually benefit us, and when we trust ourselves, we can act with better intention and more confidently. A confident man is definitely more attractive to our spouse, or anyone for that matter.
Just some good advice and IMHO this is the best advice I have heard of late.
My prayers and hope go out to you and all in our situations
Me 46 Former W 46 D19 D7 BD Feb 2016 WAW moves out 4/16/16 D final 6/1/2017
It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine