Oops. Sorry. Ignore the question about the LL. Somehow I had missed your first post.


How have you been meeting his need for acts of service? Have you specifically asked him what exactly he needs you to do?

Okay, so H does say he love you. Even if he says it in a roundabout way. Also, saying that he loves you as the mother of his child is also a form of love.

I think what both you seem to need at this point in time is the feeling of romantic love, the feeling of being in love.

How are date nights coming along?


I get the feeling that work stress is either a symptom of something else or the cause of the rut you're in now.

The playing of video game is a deadaway. My xh used to escape into the virtual world whenever he was stressed. Just a thought, is it possible for you to game with him?

Maybe your H is teething? Have you read Mwd'S article about this on this site?

You can call me Dory/ Grl.

As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"

It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.