[BrightFuture]

2T, thanks for stopping by.
I finally figured out the car insurance thing. The original renewal showed H as primary driver on my old car (the got it all mixed up), and this why my car insurance went up (and I was wondering why). So, after the corrected it they listed H on his truck and then his car. This made truck insurance go up. So, it took me another call to the insurance company to remove H from all cars, except for his car as a driver. Now, it only affects his car premium, which is higher than last year because of a traffic infraction.

I will be sending him the numbers tomorrow.

I run the 5K this morning. It was tough. I think I did worse than last year. I was not in my best shape today, plus I gained a couple more pounds since last year. I’ve been trying to lose some weight, but it is very difficult, especially with all the parties and happy hours. I think the drinking is what contributes the most, because I normally eat healthy and in small portions.

My BIL, my son and a couple of other friends were at the run as well. My son finished in the first 250 runners and got a special medal. Wow! At first I was just so happy for him. Later in the afternoon, after I got home, I had so many emotions about this. I thought about what my mutual friend told me last weekend, how H talks about the perfect family that that crazy woman has. I thought how proud I am for my son and how he is accomplishing a lot in his life. How it surprises me sometimes (remembering that my son was a rebellious teenager and had to finish the high school in independent study program)… And how I also realize that my son has a lot of qualities that I always wanted in my son. He is strong, he is smart, he is kind, he gets the things done when he is determined, and he is also physically fit. He is a lot like me. He’s been through some tough times in his life, and he is coming through just fine.
So, H, don’t you see a perfect family here that you decided to abandon?!!

I did post the update about today’s run and my son’s accomplishment on FB. H hope I will see it, since a few of his (and my) friends commented on it.

On another note, just received a text from H asking me if I received a letter from the mortgage company. He is concerned, and it is a good sign. He is trying to resolve the escrow issue and it looks like he is on top of the situation, as much as he can. I will be still keeping an eye on it.