I guess ok Sandi. I was on vacation last week. First one without my wife. My daughter was on spring break and was playing softball so I was at the beach watching her play and then just hanging out. Our 19th anniversary was on 3/23. I have not talked to her at all. The only time I initiate contact is after a game I will text her how our daughter did and the score. She will text back thanks or thank you but I do not respond. I was gonna stop doing that after an incident we had but during my bible study I felt God tell me don't stop the updates. The incident was out of the blue she texted me about a speeding ticket our daughter had and she wanted to know if it was settled. I told her one was and one was not. She said that we did not tell her about the other ticket. I thought we did. She is living 500 miles away and we barely talk. If I was trying to hide it I would not have mentioned it. She got mad because our oldest knew about it and she says she was the last to know. I told her I wasn't gonna discuss it with her and she said, I am ready for this to be over. My youngest daughter saw my phone laying down and saw the text and really got on to my wife. Told her she has changed and she really needed her mom to take her shopping and to talk to. My daughter told her that was the devil in her talking. Their relationship is very stressed. My daughter tells me that she posted a post on social media that she was no longer broken but a wiser, stronger more beautiful women because God and put the pieces back together. I just believe that is her trying to make us believe a lie. Several of her friends have told me that she is not happy living where she is. She is just so hard hearted towards me. Today I got a separation hearing notice in the mail. It is May 31. I do not want this but I can not stop it.
