Church today, shopping and lunch with a friend, then home to work on the S agreement with H.

H is angry that I want to run it by my L. (He downloaded it from a paid, state-specific, legal web-company. Our agreement is real simple, but we have to take into account potential complications.

For instance, we have agreed on length and amount of alimony (state guidelines) - but what if something happens to H during that time? I want to discuss options with the L.

How do we solve health insurance? Taxes? All that kind of stuff. H believes he's a subject matter expert on everything and there's no need to talk to our CPA or a L about any of this. It's causing friction, anger and arguments.

6 days until I leave.


M 16 yrs, WH62, P54
3 adult blended kids
EA 11/13, BD1 6/14
PA fall 14, BD2 2/15
Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15
Separated 4/16
WH moved OW in 5/16
Divorced 6/15/17