Cherry, I don't know how to play it anymore either! Today he told me he was going to the store to buy light bulbs. I said ok. A few minutes later he asked if I wanted to come with him in case there was anything I needed myself. My first instinct was to say no and give him his space. Then I remembered that my DB coach said that things like that can be little bonding moments, so I said yes and went with him to Walmart. Well, he was grumpy the entire time we were out, like he didn't want to be there! I cannot win. Took everything in me not to say "why did you ask me then?!"