Hey OTW,

Get out of her way.

So true.

She has a new credit card that is just hers with a limit higher then she has ever had before. With her credit issues of the past I need to just get out of her way. For the first time her poor spending decisions will not affect me.

I have been able to save some money. Not a lot but still through the whole MR we were never able to save anything.


Hey Jb9140,

thanks for posting, sorry to hear your W moved out. I too get the urge to beg and plead. I also don't do it. I post on here instead.

Fear is what holds us back from living.


Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016