Doing well? There are moments I stick on 'White Flag' by Dido and I know it's not a good day! W was due to pick the kids up at 4 and she's pushed it to 5. It's OK, but I'm off to the gym and it's delayed me. It's nice to have the kids for a bit longer, but I know it's a symptom of her not being able to cope on her own as she has been doing this for a couple of weeks now.
There is, of course, the stubbornness to contend with in this sitch. W has terrible trouble admitting she is wrong and is stubborn accordingly. It would take her an enormous amount of time to summon up the wherewithal to admit that she has done anything wrong. Even her own mother says she is too stubborn for her own good!
Hi srt
Welcome to the party! No, my W has never said what the actual problem was, but she tried a barb with 'I don't find you physically attractive any more'. I think that was a barb because I wouldn't move out. Is she seeing anybody? I don't think so, but who knows.
Don't be too worried about the depression and anxiety. I'd be surprised if you didn't get under the weather about it all.
It's the patience thing that gets to us all. It's agonising. In other walks of life, if you have a problem, you generally talk about it, agree a solution and implement. The fact you just can't seem to do anything about it drives you nuts. That's why I've joined the gym. It'll keep my mind off things, get me out of the house and be a good GAL activity.
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015
