Feeling he's in MLC, but in D process

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Feyth and Sotto,

I can't even imagine how that would feel, knowing that others knew first. My H waited a week and only told the couple we owned our vacation home with (his ladyfriend and her husband). He then didn't tell anyone else until he moved out 2 mos later (he says).

And Feyth, most of the time the skiing together is "accidental". I would go ski, and he was looking for me. Weird. Our "day before Easter ski date" was surprising in that he told me I was skiing with he and D23 (he was calling that a "family get together" for Easter). He just neglected to tell me that she dropped out the night before.
When those "ski dates" happen, I almost welcome them, although they always start out awkward on my part as I'm not sure which H I am dealing with at first. I usually get to spend the day with the H I used to know, I think because it is a stress free fun environment for him. It keeps me going, in a way. As long as I understand that the old H is just peeping out for a few hours while he is stress free, I don't get my hopes up anymore. Once we're off the hill, I know I will no longer recognize him. Ski season is over in a week or so. Then what?