H and I belong to a camping club and usually go camping most weekends during the spring/summer with 3 other couples we are close to. In the spirit of GAL I was thinking I would continue these weekend trips as a way to get out of the house and keep busy. The book suggests, and my DB coach suggested, not telling people about our situation. However, we are very close to the 3 couples. Close enough that it won't be long before they realize something is not right. So, any suggestions on what reason to give that H is suddenly not with me every weekend?