"h told all his new friends that we were completely done before he even told me!"

My H did this too - he told mutual friends that our M was over whilst he was telling me he was confused and not sure what he wanted (while carrying on the A.) One of our friends became so concerned I didn't know, she told me....that was pretty awful at the time and I just couldn't believe he would have done that. It's another thing I just accept now...xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus