Hi Inpain I completely understand your taking some time away from the forum. Its not easy sometimes reading about all these situations and some of them have been going on for years.
It does look like your situation has taken a turn. I really hope your H makes the effort to fix his mess. You seem stronger now that before. I could see it in you but know i feel it in your words and actions.
Take it slow. Hopefully he is on his path back to you and your family. Let's hope hes learned what he needs to, Don't need this to be repeated in another 9 years.
thanks for your post on my situation. It was good hearing from you.... even though i was hoping you left the forum because things were so much better, i'm glad you are here for you and for those who need your story so they can learn from it as well.
hugs Irish
M51 XW43 (38 at bd) BD1 MAY 30 2015 BD2 JUNE 25 2015 by text moved out Aug 2 2015 left both Daughters 13 and 15 (now 18-20) Her divorce Final July 26 2016 Last time she saw her kids Aug 2 2015