So I was just re-reading the chapter on A's in DR, and the advice MWD gives is to first try the LRT and if that fails try the ALRT - which is basically complete cutoff/separation.

W has been showing some signs of wanting to make the MR work and not wanting to leave which I see as positive and has been extremely emotional through this and indecisive. Especially since I confronted her a week ago with proof and she admitted to the EA.

While I agree I may be enabling the EA and allowing her some Cake eating, shouldn't I go through the LRT process first and see if she starts to change?

Me: 40 W: 45
T: 13, M: 11
1 D: 9

Suspect A 6/15
ILBINILWY 8/15, and 3/16
EA/PA Discovered 3/16
EA admitted 3/16
W Moved out 4/16
W opens R talk and says A over 1/17