my wife is a waw! trying everything to save it!

[PacLove]

I don't know as if you want to remove her, I haven't come to that stage yet. Still wearing the wedding ring although I put the pictures at the office in my drawer as they were a constant distraction during the day everytime I saw them.

As for switching jobs, it depends on how you enjoy your current one and how relaxed/comfortable you have it. I did that (before the BD) and my W perceived it negatively as I gave up s in the process. In the end though I was much happier until BD - the challenge being though in a new role you want to perform - that's hard to do without a clear mind!!! Ever since BD it's been very trying on me.