Tell her you're not ok with her being there.
No cohabitation, no 'together' time unless it's in a public place.

She made the decision. She pooped her pants. They're starting to stink. She needs to clean them herself.

Tough to take, tough to implement. I know. This is love. Tough love. Put up the boundary and STICK to it. She is no longer welcome at the house. She moved out. Tell her to move the rust of her stuff while you're gone, and that you expect her to be gone when you get home.

Sad consequences of bad decisions.

My wife and I are in the same house, but D'ing right now. I'm happy to find a new place - she's stalling on the refi of the house, due to a number of reasons. She finds ways of pushing buttons and putting blame on me. I'm excited when she will no longer be able to do that.

M46, EXWW46
M15 T17
D20, S19, D13
M - Addiction since 1998
W EA/PA #1 2013/2014
W EA #2 June 2015...
BD 1 Big D talk 9/15
BD 2 - EA/PA disc 10/30/15
Served D 1/22/16
Divorced 5/25/16 (yes, that fast!)