How to work on it once she is gone is a huge concern for me!

I know her plans are to leave. I know she's actively looking for jobs. I know she hasn't booked a plane ticket yet. I know she hasn't filed for divorce yet.

I know that I need to GAL and find myself in the time being. I am involved with a few different things right now. I just sent my resume to another company, a change in jobs may be helpful, new atmosphere no memories. No co workers that know things...

We will see if that plays out I cannot afford a pay cut so if it's not appropriate pay wise I will have to stay in my current job until something else comes along

I am having mixed emotions as far as should I try to remove her from my mind or should I just live with her there?

If I need to remove her how do I go about that?

First date 12/24/13
M 3/12/14
BD 2/8/16
Working on it alone since 2/8/16
Doing things wrong 2/8/16
Doing things different 3/12/16