Separate sleeping, she works graveyard shift, 22:00-08:00 since her promotion back in December. Due to the fact we both work together I was taken off graveyard because she cannot be my direct supervisor, and she is the manager over all on that shift... I work differ shifts through out the week.

When she is working I sleep in the bed, she sleeps in the bed in the afternoon. When we are both off or if she sleeps longer than usual on an off day I will sleep in the living room on the futon.

I know NC will not be possible in my situation but should I distance myself more? I feel we have been connecting recently but I don't know if I am just easing her through the process or not

First date 12/24/13
M 3/12/14
BD 2/8/16
Working on it alone since 2/8/16
Doing things wrong 2/8/16
Doing things different 3/12/16